Here’s The Biggest Misconception About The Coaching Industry

HERE’S THE BIGGEST MISCONCEPTION ABOUT THE COACHING INDUSTRY

There’s an unhealthy trend causing folks to believe that hiring a coach is THE answer to their problems

...That the coach knows what’s best for you (more than you do)

...That the process of hiring a coach is enough to motivate you to make the changes you want

NOPE. Let me explain why. Let’s get real honest now.

Can you see the dependency in this type of coaching relationship??

If you believe that I have all the answers and that I know what’s best for you (more than you do for yourself), then you become reliant on me instead of building your muscle of YOU knowing what’s best for you & trusting yourself

This way of thinking creates a dependency on the coach to act as your beacon of truth, to have the answers for you, & for you to over rely on them past what’s best for you

Also the act of hiring a coach is NOT enough to inspire you to do the work

You get to make that choice and you get to make that commitment to yourself

In my opinion, the best kind of coach to hire is one that will teach you how to

💃🏻 Trust yourself

💃🏻 Rely on YOUR inner wisdom

💃🏻 Creates a safe space to explore what that looks like WITH you

My clients create extraordinary results working with me because they know that my job is to connect them to THEIR truth

My wish for you, at the core of my being, is for you to:

✨ Know yourself better than anyone else can

✨ Trust yourself more than you trust anyone else regarding your truth & what’s best for you

✨Be the greatest love of your life first and foremost so you have the capacity to love others without it being at your cost

This requires you to be open to seeing yourself as THE Primary Authority of Your Life

When you believe you know what is best for you more than anyone else does, you get to filter other people’s opinions, their invitations, their versions of the truth through YOUR own inner wisdom, YOUR deep intelligence, & YOUR truth first and foremost

Having support & resources is vital. Hiring a coach can be a really magical thing (just read my clients’ testimonials)

BUT above all, you create the most magical shifts in your life when you take responsibility for yourself, your results, & you’re willing to learn to value your wisdom & trust yourself (which is a major & fundamental part of the work that I do with my clients)

Learning to use your internal resources first & foremost is mother fluffing transformative✨ GOLD ✨

The reasons my clients create extraordinary results time & time again are because

💃🏻 They learn to trust themselves & their inner wisdom

💃🏻 They learn to listen to themselves & their bodies about what feels right for them

💃🏻 They choose & commit to do this uncomfortable work of making changes, doing new things, which often feels bad because the brain’s default is to choose comfort over growth

Change happens when you decide do this deep work & take responsibility for your results

This is the fertile ground to make the changes you want where my role is to be a magical mother fluffing resource for you, working WITH you, to support you with making these shifts

Book a PlayDate call with me and lets explore working together.

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